Don’t clip your wings.

Thoughts loading.. So I’ve been thinking lately about who I am and what I want. There’s a few select things that have always been accessible to me, but somehow I have never done them. So the other day as I was writing in my journal, I began to ponder why I didn’t do these things…

Check mate.

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Outgrowing.. 🌱

As a child when I heard the term “outgrowing” I always thought it was this joyful part of life you partake in when your reaching new levels and exciting new landmarks were beginning to take place. Little did I know that friendly little term wasn’t always so pleasant.. nor did it feel like such a…

Perfect patty.

Ahhhhhh…the sweet battle of perfection. I wish I could say I didn’t know it just so well. I would say my desire for perfection began my junior yr in high school. I decided to ditch my adolescent glasses and become a lipgloss expert and weavologist at the same damn time. I no longer loved my…

Shoppers unanimous.

*stands up* Hi my name is Mellisa Scarlett and I have an ongoing shopping addiction. *wipes sweat and sits down* now that that’s over let’s discuss the evil that shopping really is lol. I’ve heard of the wildest addictions(currently a case worker) but I must say between food and shopping I would argue anyone that…

Christianity

God, Jesus, and me. It’s been a battle that I believe has been fought many times before me. The life of a young Christian is beyonddddddd worth it. But with all things worth having comes major sacrifice. Am I drinking too much? Did I represent myself well? Does this fun go against my values? Should…

Perception vs Reality.

So lately I’ve been questioning the true difference between the two and wondering why perception has become so prevalent in my life. Why has how I’m perceived somehow become such a task. I think from the beginning of time I’ve been programmed to acknowledge and care for what people thought of me.. Family, friends, etc….